The Art of Getting What You Want?
What if somebody asks you, “What do you want in your life?” May be, you know the answer. But what if further you are being asked, “How to get what you want?” Now that’s where most of us get stuck.
The reason this question feels daunting is because it includes many things happening in our daily routine, i.e. our behaviors and habits. We look for ways and pieces of advice that can guide us to the right track to get what we want in life like overcoming our fear and remain adamant throughout.
So, here are a few simple ways to help you achieve what you want in life without losing much.
While some people are clear about their life goals, realizing one is quite challenging for others. So, the first step is to know what you want in life. And this has nothing to do with materialistic desires. It is rather about your feeling, and goals, i.e. what you want from inside.
So now, how to find what we want? We say, pen down! Write everything that’s inside you. What success means to you, what all can make you happy and satisfy your soul. Take time to evaluate your past and present and then decide on your future. The more clarity you have about your life’s purpose, the more it’s easy to achieve.
Design the Life you want to live
Write your goals on a paper. If the goals are floating in your head, they may feel difficult to achieve. That’s why write them down on paper. Think of all the steps you’d be taking one by one and write them, too. Follow the steps and review your progress regularly. Make necessary changes, if required.
It’s Time to Act
A plan without execution is a waste. While it’s very exciting when we sit down and dream about what we want in life, if we don’t take any action it’ll remain a dream forever. Dreams turn into reality only when you act upon them. Take a step to move forward, either small or big. Every step counts. Only you are responsible for your achievements. Your actions in present will determine your success in future. So, keep working for it!
Keep Your Focus
The most important thing when it comes to getting the life you want is to stay focused. We often fall prey to distractions, negative thoughts, anxiety and fear, etc. All these things keep us away from our goal. So, trust yourself, have faith in God and stay true to yourself. In this way, you won’t lose your focus and will definitely get what you want.
The Bottom Line
Achieving your goal and living your dreams is really about rebuilding yourself. The entire process makes you a new YOU. Be the best version of yourself and grow without blaming, complaining, and excuses. Trust your journey and enjoy every step of it. All the Best!